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Smiling Assassins”: How Alcohol Became the Poison We Celebrate | James Swanwick

Smiling Assassins”: How Alcohol Became the Poison We Celebrate | James Swanwick

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Alcohol has been with us for thousands of years. But what if one of the oldest human rituals is also one of the most damaging habits we’ve normalized? That’s exactly the conversation I had with my guest, James Swanwick, founder of Alcohol Free Lifestyle.

James grew up a “socially acceptable” drinker in Australia, never hitting a rock bottom, but slowly sliding into a life that felt like a six out of ten in every category. One morning, after a night of “just a few drinks,” he decided enough was enough. That 30-day experiment turned into 15 years alcohol free and today, he’s helping thousands of people experience the same transformation.

In this episode, James unpacks the cultural conditioning that glamorizes alcohol, the science that shows its damage, and the practical tools you can use to break free. Whether you’re curious about cutting back or considering a bigger shift, you’ll leave with powerful takeaways.

Why This Matters to You

Buried under brain fog, restless sleep, or creeping weight gain? You may not realize alcohol is at the center of it. James makes it clear: even one “innocent” nightly drink can impact your brain and your body more than you think.

Stuck in social cycles where “grabbing drinks” is the default? You’re not alone. Our culture celebrates alcohol at every turn, from movies to sporting events, but that doesn’t mean you have to. James shares how to navigate those smiling offers without feeling deprived.

Worried that quitting means labeling yourself an “alcoholic”? James challenges that myth. He explains why the word doesn’t even exist in medical literature and why seeing alcohol use as a temporary disorder opens the door to lasting change.

Feeling like willpower is your only option? The truth is, willpower is one of the least effective strategies. James reveals how neuroscience, community, and functional health practices create real transformation.

And if you’ve wondered whether moderation is the answer, James calls it out plainly: moderation is a myth for most people. Once you hear his reasoning, you’ll see why the path to freedom is clearer than you think.

Actionable Advice

Reframe your language: Stop telling yourself “I can’t drink” and start focusing on what you will do instead, like ordering sparkling water with lime.

Surround yourself with like-minded people: Join health-focused communities that support your goals instead of sabotaging them.

Replace habits with better fuel: When sugar cravings hit, go for dark chocolate, Greek yogurt, or blueberries instead of collapsing into old cycles.

Track your wins: Tools like an Aura Ring can show you real-time proof of how alcohol-free living improves your sleep and heart health.

Anchor gratitude daily: Write down 20 things you’re grateful for to retrain your brain and reduce cravings.

James went from being a socially acceptable drinker with extra weight, poor sleep, and average relationships to losing 35 pounds, landing his dream job at ESPN, finding love, and creating Alcohol Free Lifestyle, a movement that has helped thousands of people transform their health and happiness.

Links and Resources to Explore

James Swanwick’s Website

James Swanwick on Instagram

James Swanwick’s Book “CLEAR”

Alcohol Free Lifestyle on Facebook

Listen to the Full Episode – Available now on Apple, Spotify, or YouTube.


Living alcohol free isn’t about deprivation, it’s about creating space for health, clarity, and connection. If you’ve been curious about what life could feel like without alcohol, take a page from James’s story and run your own experiment. You just might find yourself more energized, connected, and fulfilled than you ever imagined.


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